It appears the Throuple matrimony-hood is gradually flourishing as people are admitting it has never been better. Just recently, a man joined the Throuple universe after ending his 19-years marriage. Inspired by a TV show, the man pursued a polyamorous affair with two women and now he admits feeling happier.
Shai Fishman, a 46-Year-Old Entrepreneur from Newton, Pennsylvania pursued a polyamorous affair after watching TV shows titled Married and Dating as well as Big Love and Polyamory
Shai Fishman, a 46-Year-Old Entrepreneur from Newton, Pennsylvania is a keen advocate of the polyamory lifestyle. Clearly different from the swinger lifestyle, polyamory specifically places importance on having numerously committed yet emotional relationships.
Turned out, Shai has once been married to wife Danielle, 42, before coming across two TV shows titled Married and Dating as well as Big Love and Polyamory. The shows had a belief that people should be allowed to express romantic feelings to more than just a person. Captivated by the idea, Shai launched a read on Polyamory and soon reached a decision to give it a shot.
Being the best decision ever, Shai explained that a monogamous marriage didn’t meet all six of his core human needs, which include, to feel safe, have variety, service, to feel loved, significant, and service. Accordingly, he acknowledged that the monogamous style of marriage prevented him from attaining variety, service, and growth.
For six years, Shai talked his wife Danielle into trying out the Polyamory lifestyle, but after seven months, she started struggling with the demands that came with an open relationship. Danielle was unable to share details about their polyamory relationship with their children, hence she reached a decision for divorce and the pair officially separated in 2014.
Two years after, precisely in 2016, Shai encountered his present lovers – Krissy, 41, and Lea, 40 via an online dating platform. Both Lea and Krissy listed themselves as being monogamous but Shai admitted it didn’t stop him from establishing connections. Fortunately, Lea shares Shai’s drive to advocate for relationship freedom and so they both launched an online community titled: ‘Leveled Up Love.’ The active Facebook group connects with over 4k people from across the globe.
Nevertheless, the trio has never gotten rude comments but according to Shai, they do get weird stare whey they publicly display affection. On the other hand, Shai hopes polyamorous relationships might one day become a legitimized act in public. And similarly, his now ex-wife Danielle hasn’t entered any relationship since the divorce, but living comfortably on Shai, Krissy, and Lea’s shared property along with her three kids.